Hey everyone, having problems actually getting erect when I’m with someone. I’m a single male 21 years old and can easily get erect by myself even without any kind of visual stimulation but as soon as I’m with a girl it feels like my penis doesn’t work.
I assume this is an anxiety/ stress related issue but does anyone have any helpful tips ?
I have tried small dose of viagra which did work but I really don’t want to rely on it.
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Definitely sounds like performance anxiety, dealing with that too. Keep doing these mojo exercises and meditations I find helpful to reduce stress and feel more relaxed
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Yeah there are mental exercises on here that help. The inner critic one helped me , also the one about spectatoring. And the meditations. It takes some time keep at it.
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Hey man. I’m sorry you’re having those issues with others. It bums me out that it’s affecting you when you’re young. You’ve already told us the plumbing works fine. I’m a little shocked myself at how well the box breathing helps. It seemed to good to be true. I hope if it helps a 50 year old guy, it can help
Someone younger too.
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Hey man, I feel you, you’re not alone. I have exactly the same situation - it’s totally fine while I watch porn but it’s not ok with my partner
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I tried box the other night. Couldn’t catch my breath. Had to go with slow deep in and slower out. Couldn’t hold it in or out. Maybe I was already too worked up. (She was goin down…
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