All the opportunity but none of the wood

🍆 Erection issues
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Bear with me, and please don’t judge if you have an issue with what I’m about be share.

So age 53 three, three years out of a 25 marriage and find myself part of the swingers lifestyle.

Now I’m getting plenty of opportunities from some very attractive ladies ranging from the age of 25 to 50.

I’ve perfected my oral skills much the the delight of everyone I’ve yet met, but once you’ve teased and pleased a women to multiple orgasms there then more than ready to fuck.

I’m taking two tadadfiil before I go out, and when an opportunity comes up either with a arrange date or literally bumping into someone i can feel my cock growing and lengthening but not to the point it gets erect which then becomes a huge disappointment to those in with… and it’s hard to follow up on future dates due to their knowledge of my issues.

I’ve got bad circulation, I’m out of work, fighting depression daily… the other night after date I felt worse than i had in ages, felt useless, and started thinking about suicide again … I tried hard to find a positive but it just sent me on a spiral which I had to focus hard on the get home safely.

I’m at suck a loose end, the doctor and hospital don’t seem to have any idea of what to do… I need some change I’ve struggle hugely with this for years and now when I’ve got an opportunity Im the guy that turns of to a gunfight with a limp sock.

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Hey brother, hang in there. I am also in my late 50s. I have dealt with and overcome ED on two occasions separated by 20+ years. Both times, it was related to depression / self image. Both times I was having financial problems and felt useless. It showed up in the bedroom, but for whatever reason, I didn´t make the connection either time at first. My advise the following: 1) 1 pill will work as well as two. Save yourself the raging headache and just take one. 2) work on yourself. Find meaning in your life. Find work, do something useful. You will be amazed how the little soldier will show up for someone he respects. 3) If you at any time get rock hard, find out why. Is it a particular fantasy? A particular situation? If so, concentrate on that and use the tactics on this site to stop spectatoring. It´s easier to work on this if you are in a regular relationship because if you are just hooking up, then sex is the point. Hope you get through this.

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