I’m 35 and had my first ED experience a few months ago. Since then, it has become more frequent. I still get intense erections in my sleep and “morning woods” but the moment I know it’s GO TIME; I get an overwhelming feeling of nervousness and it ruins everything. I eat healthy, I workout 5-6x a week, I don’t, I drink, don’t smoke, and I have naturally high T Levels.
The issues are still young and my wife is showing grace. I just want this to end ASAP.
The only physical change is my vasectomy earlier this year. I have many friends who have had the same procedure but are unaffected.
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Sounds mental. Stick with the exercises with the app. The more you can get yourself relaxed, the more you’ll be able to enjoy. That’s the point they try to hammer home on the app, and what I’m fi ding and gaining confidence in. Good luck, brother.
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Man can I just suggest that there is nothing wrong with you ! You are healthy ! You have a lovely supportive wife! The sense of pressure on male performance is huge … be kind to yourself , speak to your wife and see how Mojo goes !
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I’m in similar situation. I’m 42 and up till about 2 months ago have been basically the same as I was at 16. Had a couple misfires in the past but was able to rally and was fine. This last time ended somewhat badly and now I’m in my head. My wife fully supports me doing this and is doing everything she can to help. But the brain is a very strong enemy that knows just right where to hurt you the most. I’ve never understood the term “impotent rage” till just this last month. My desire is still high and everything works but just not at the moment I want it too. Stay strong and this hopefully is helpful. I know this is really helpful for me to know I’m not the only one. Never knew about psychological ED till 2 months ago.
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Sounds like it’s in your head like me. Be kind to yourself and stick with mojo. Good luck!
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My situation is almost the same exact as yours. I am 46 up until two months ago never had any issues that I couldn’t recover from . Been with my wife for 15 years and up until a couple months ago the sex was better than ever. Had an issue were I went soft ( also had a UTI ) that started the snowball. But here is the encouraging part a few days ago had good sex! I did go to my urologist and he was quick to prescribe bills but just like you I feel that it’s 100% psychological. I did take a couple bills before sex but honestly don’t think they had anything to do with it . Keep your head up !!
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Just because your friends weren’t affected doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be. Its a big choice to get snipped and you are reacting to it. Be patient. Find new ways of experiencing sex. The soft penis pleasure exercises really helped me. Include your partner in your journey. We can still explore sex at middle age.
Interesting. I got soft the first time at a young age but I still struggle with the uncertainty to this day. It sounds like you experienced a similar thing recently and its had a comparable effect. Sorry if I’m presuming too much. Real science and psychology has shown me how to not dwell on it. Box breath and having compassion for myself keep me going.
Love your words of encouragement. I second this.
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