So I have a new lover who is a tantra goddess and has given me a new perspective . In tantra the goal of an intimate encounter is not to achieve orgasm and ejaculation but to enjoy the experience - giving and receiving pleasure whether massage, oral, penetration or simply kissing or hugging. When I’m with her I always get an erection and during massage of penis achieve multiple organs without ejaculation but sometimes (maybe 50%) it will go soft during penetration some times if we switch to oral or kissing it will come back but sometimes it’s gone asleep and at the same time I feel sexually satisfied even though my Alpha male wants me to ‘satisfy ‘ her and me by me reaching ejaculation orgasm like some sort of stallion. She is teaching me some new techniques to get her to a state of bliss with multiple orgasms. Don’t get me wrong both when I do go all the way to ejeculation in penetration but I’m learning to accept that it doesn’t matter if I don’t.
So the question I have is should we just accept that at 65 the body doesn’t need as many ejaculation orgasms and as long as partner is cool with other things we should stop worrying about it and maybe learn new skills to bring her to ecstasy ?
Yes totally.
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