I used to get rock hard with the slightest touch, now hardly anything seems to get me going.
Do you masturbate often or watch porn?
It could be stress or anxiety. I had this a bit earlier this year, thought something was really wrong with me because I could always get hard just thinking about it and suddenly it wouldn’t happen and would take a fair bit of stimulation… or it wouldn’t happen at all. I came to realize I was too stressed out and way in my head. Good luck!
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What have you done to manage it?
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After awhile that part got better, but I then had fight or flight kick in every time we were going to have sex and would have PE within a couple of minutes, which would add to the stress.
Mojo has been helping me realize how in my head I am and the exercises do help. I have only had one opportunity for sex with my wife since I started a couple of months ago, and it was a partial success for me. I was able to stop fight or flight (and myself) from coming, but me taking a two minute pause ruined the mood for my wife, I was able to continue for a few before it was time for me to finish up. Im still stressed about sex, but we’re taking a break from it at the moment as there’s a lot going on in our lives and neither of us were managing the regular asking/ rejection well.
As the previous commenter wrote it seems to be a result of stress or axiety. I’m in the same shoes and trying to deal with it with the help of Mojo. Meditation, breathing exercises, handling negative thoughts by categorizing and challenging them, build up an inner coach against my inner critic, focus on different sensation to keep myself in the present instead of my head, sensation focus, etc…there are a lot to practice and i can feel the difference, although i’ve got over it yet. I hope i can write a success story in a couple of weeks/months.
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