What was your experience of wax and wane like?

remaining-orange-angelfish · October 12, 2023, 3:12pm

Good

better-magenta-guan · October 13, 2023, 6:57pm

Couldn’t get it up to a full election. Bit bummed out.

supreme-coffee-quokka · October 16, 2023, 6:53pm

I thoroughly enjoyed it

preliminary-silver-fish · October 20, 2023, 5:20pm

Made me realize how easy it comes back when you aren’t in your head.

outside-yellow-crayfish · October 24, 2023, 10:44pm

Made me more comfortable with losing an election. A little more confident that if I lose an election in the moment, I am able to get it back. In the future I hope losing an election won’t be a big deal for me

industrial-maroon-ox · October 25, 2023, 4:34pm

I haven’t tried it yet. Have some questions/issues:

I’m married- it’s difficult to say “I need 15 - 20 minutes so I can masterbate.” Even if I felt comfortable doing so, I’m not sure I would be going off and doing it.
if I have trouble getting erect, how can I “wax”?
Are ed pills allowed? Note that i currently don’t get fully erect when using pills in sexual situations (but have been able to do so reliably in the past), so it would seem to be a reasonable thing to do. I have used pills when I’ve masterbated previously.

Interested in your feedback.

grateful-purple-cobra · October 25, 2023, 10:55pm

This was an easy one as I feel like I do similar to this but. Ow that I know its good for me ill be doing it this way

efficient-coral-barracuda · October 26, 2023, 3:06am

I’m hoping it works irl

impressive-violet-fox · October 26, 2023, 9:53pm

this was so much fun, at the start I was worried that I wasn’t getting hard then kept doing soft sensations. the lack of porn was odd but then I started to use fantasy in my mind and it was really powerful. I was a bit nervous at getting hard and then soft so I will have to work on not letting those feelings creep in. but after it I really feel that I have been missing the point of being with someone and just enjoying it rather than worrying about being hard. Its a long way to go for me but I think I am starting to see this new path of emotions being something wonderful.

provincial-aqua-porcupine · October 28, 2023, 12:14pm

Doing this solo helped me understand that getting hard is not an all or nothing experience. It can leave and arrive and that’s totally normal

arbitrary-olive-viper · October 30, 2023, 5:04am

gave me more confidence that if i go soft and i can come back. will def try again

realistic-scarlet-scallop · October 30, 2023, 5:19am

I was surprised by how easy it was, by

vitreous-black-damselfly · October 31, 2023, 12:46am

It was difficult to get hard at first and all three times was about 94 per cent

working-red-weasel · November 2, 2023, 12:31am

Felt very different to use the non dominant hand to do so

wild-cyan-skink · November 2, 2023, 3:37am

Enjoyed it a lot! Gave me a bunch of confidence of the ups and downs of the whole process.

parental-white-lamprey · November 3, 2023, 3:25am

It was interesting and fun. The fantasies on cue were awkward at first, but I got into it.

desirable-beige-albatross · November 4, 2023, 11:09pm

Wax n’wane away!

imaginative-gold-wallaby · November 5, 2023, 4:10am

Not bad

planned-orange-cat · November 5, 2023, 8:06pm

Went well

content-gray-vole · November 8, 2023, 10:00am

It’s fun. Very pleasurable. I think this is going to be the most important exercise for me as I have been super aware of going soft when I’m with someone, then the viscous cycle of spectatoring/anxiety kicks-in.