Being connected with each other and experiencing pleasure together.
Knowing that she’s having as much fun as I am, and we’re both getting everything we want
My definition of good sex is both being connected and both being vocal and expressive as we are feeling the pleasure, and not holding back and staying quiet because one of us or both of us feel shamed to express that feeling.
Sex is something where we can release our stress and worries while connecting with your partner at a deeper level and enjoying each others bodies
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Sex for me is a balance of being selfish by maximizing my pleasure and pleasing her. It ebbs snd flows during sex. At times I am enjoying her body completely for my own pleasure, and at times I am focused on her pleasure.
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Sex for me is a balance of getting what I want and doing what she wants. It can change from me doing something that mainly pleasures me to swapping and doing something to mainly pleasure her.
It is imitate to me. I guess that’s can lead into insecurity. Like I haven’t had sex before but I still wanna crack like anyone else. I believe it’s a stress reliever, fun, and a bond.
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I want it to be playful, enjoyable, and mutually explorative
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Being wanted
Breaking the bonds of social expectation and politeness and getting back in touch with the animal that dwells within
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I want to feel wanted and loved. Affection goes a long way in the bedroom
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A primal and playful sharing of the body…and an intimate connection that can bind individuals together.
I want it to be a mutual switch. I give and dominate and then to be told what to do and guided. It should be a time of exploration and fun, and at times comedy
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Sex is like playing together, showing love and affection for each other through pleasure.
To be mutually explorative, and mutually indulgent. In that, you indulge both your partner’s desires AND your own.
To have both parties receiving and giving pleasure, exploring each other fantasies and being more in the moment cuddling and foreplay going into and out of penetration only
Sex should feel like the rawest parts of you are exposed and free from judgement. You should be able to revel in the freedom of your body’s functions and feel passion in sharing someone else’s body with yours
Sex should be playful, intimate and pleasurable, peaceful yet exciting, all while generating mutual respect and affection.
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Sex for me is contact. Eye contact, skin contact, sweat and the merging of bodies into one. Laughing when things go wrong is a lifesaver. Nothing beats the pleasure of closeness like that and a good personal connection makes the sex a thousand time better.
Sex should be intimate and openly communicative