What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

We have a strong connection, and we both pleasure each other without it feeling quick

I feel confident naked and flaccid

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Feeling as if I don’t have pressure to perform and we can each take things at our own pace

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Being comfortable in the moment in each other’s presence enjoying what out body’s can do to each other

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Being present in the moment and enjoying the sensations you’re feeling and feeling comfortable in yourself while doing it and pleasing the person you’re doing it with and feeling the connection through them

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Sex is an emotional connection between two humans, not just a physical event that leads to an expected outcome

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Feeling instead of thinking

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Providing immense pleasure and turning off my brain

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connection, looking after your partner, ensuring it can be light hearted and fun, and hot too

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sex does not need to be penetration, and neither party has to finish, it can simply be a fun time to explore pleasure together and strengthen your relationship

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A shared experience of joy. Both parties working for the pleasure of the other, and benefiting

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A relaxing and pleasurable experience where I feel closer to my partner with each second and I’m worry-free about performance because I know I can last as long as I want.

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Providing pleasure and sharing a connection with your partner without having a worry about performance

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Intimacy. Connecting with someone else. Being on the same page. Being somewhat vulnerable too?

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To be on the same page with eachother

Sharing connection

Being on the same page and confidence

I agree I think ultimately this is what’s it about

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Cuddles, connections, being understood, accepted and respected, and letting my partner know how awesome they are

Being together and cuddling and just in the moment