Being hard the entire time
My performance anxiety is a result of watching porn
I need to be ready for penetrative sex always
Sex before a lifetime commitment is wrong
That I have to get an erection straight away, rather than allowing foreplay to build my arousal and erection.
This one is rough. I struggle with this as well. I have a lot of stress in my life at this time and I am just not in the mood. And even when I am, I need some sort of connection to even feel aroused. All of this often makes me feel inadequate and less masculine.
That penetrative sex is the end all be all of sex.
Sex only counts if it’s penetrative sex where you finish and I have to get an erection straight away
That orgasmic climax is the point, rather than just the feeling of physical and sexual intimacy
Has to be penetrative sex and we both have to cum to have had a good time
That my penis is big enough to satisfy. I’m a grower, not a shower. When I’m flaccid I feel like I’m inadequate. When I’m fully erect my size is fine and pleasured many people with it but I can’t shake that it is still not big enough. I am average sized. 6 inches fully erect.
That I need to stay fully rest at all times and I struggle with the idea that everyone is different
That porn can affect how hard you get with a partner
That I need to be fully prepped to have sex, including not watched porn or comedy recently, be on good form, not have drunk alcohol. I think I look for ways to control preparation because I nervous it will go wrong, which then induces anxiety and makes things worse! Ironically!