What is the fucking deal with me?

🍆 Erection issues
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I don’t understand myself. Sometimes I’m confident and have no issues then out of nowhere I get way in my head and anxious.

Yesterday my girlfriend and I had sex 3 times. I felt unstoppable and like my dick wouldn’t quit. This morning I was all in my head and anxious and couldn’t keep an erection at all. Kept coming then going as soon as I was inside.

We’ve had way more instances of it working than not working, so why does this keep happening? Why can’t I focus on the positives and think of the hundreds of times we’ve had successful sex than focus on the 10 or so times I didn’t perform how I want? Why is this still an issue?

It used to be PE and I was so terrified to have sex because I’d come to quick. Took care of that. Now it’s “ohhh what if I cant even get hard?” Like what the fuck brain?! I’m so fucking over this! It shouldn’t even be an issue anymore.

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I’ve had the same problem and some success by breathing deeply and focusing on breathing rather than myself.

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I think the fact you get so riled up when this happens makes it a problem when it shouldn’t be. You need to understand you’re human and not perfect by any means. You’re not gonna have great sex and be hard all the time. Shit happens man, just brush it off and don’t let it define you.

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