So I thought this was behind me. My girlfriend and I have been having incredible sex regularly. Like a lot. And I honestly haven’t even been thinking about it at all.
Then today, about a half hour ago, we were fooling around, I was going down on her, and hearing up to do more when I got in my head. Lost my erection and it wouldn’t come back.
She reassured me and we kissed for a bit.
I’m just feeling like a waste, like less of a man. I thought this was behind me.
It’s okay man. I know it’s frustrating now but think about how far you’ve come and focus on that. Whatever you did to get there, keep doing it. You’re way ahead of where you were even if it didn’t work out today. It’s very important not to shame yourself in this moment, as that will make it harder in the future. Remember how well things have been and you’ll serve yourself better.
I literally just posted a similar thing that happened to me last night. I also felt like I had beat and then last night same thing totally got in my head lost my erection with my wife . So crazy how powerful the mind is. But I would agree with the other gentlemen remind your mind of the successful times that you have had especially recently . A couple failed times does not mean that your back where you started . We just have work to do thats all and I have faith that we can get through this !!
Nah man even people who “never” have this issue have this happen to them from time to time.
Same happened to me today mate. Been having great sex recently. Then we planned sex last night for the morning as we had a trip. Needless to say the thoughts came into my head and I popped 100mg of Viagra just to be “certain”. Needless to say when we got to it no amount of Viagra helped as it’s performance anxiety I suppose and I’m back to square one it feels. Visibly knocked my confidence today and on the trip I was miserable
Yo, it’s ok to lose your erection when you’re busy eating your girl