What happened to me

Recently I have been passing through some changes I’m not liking at all… any simple distraction before sex I am fully soft. How can I get over this?? Somebody please help. I eat healthy, I exercise regularly. Before the start during foreplay I’m hard, during grinding I’m hard, then fast forward to the main thing before I put on the condom I’m already getting soft. This is so embarrassing and I really need help :sleepy:

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Same issue here bro, personally I think it’s the negative thoughts. It’s like everything else is the climb up the roller coaster where you’re calm, but sex and throwing on the condom is like getting to the top when the anxiety truly hits.
Also if you’re like me, you might have engrained thoughts where you convince yourself you can’t keep it up with a condom on.

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