Porn isn’t all that bad and it’s okay to use it from time to time
There’s ways to enjoy it without relying on it
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I want, at minimum, a break from it. I want to do other things! I spend too much time using it as procrastination.
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Great to hear porn isn’t bad & ok to watch in moderation
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I understand that porn isn’t necessarily a real addiction and can rather fuel other issues and make it seem like the better option, but I choose not to indulge and that is my goal
I just realized porn is my inner critics way of relaxing, and then blowing my load is the way my inner critic puts itself to sleep. I also just realized I am the porn, this really is all about me, enjoying myself! looking at porn has always felt like it’s taken something from me When I’ve used it to destress. Now I’m seeing stress is my inner critic holding onto objectives that are not achievable for the true me.
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I’ve watch porn because I’ve been bored, horny, fancy a women I can’t, or because my partner doesn’t want sex. I’ve grown to the point where I don’t need or watch it at all. I realized a year’s ago my porn content was going into a weird and a inappropriate direction so I had to find a to stop because I didn’t like the path I was on and I had sexual opportunities with someone amazing and I couldn’t perform. Reading this routine lesson learned a lot and appreciate how far I’ve come from. The unrealistic and selfish view of sex from rap culture and porn to learning and loving my partner properly. Seeing that the average time for sex in reality is 2 to 8 minutes is reassuring and a confidence booster.
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Exactly same feeling as last comment in that I have already curbed porn habits I thought were unhealthy but good to know that it’s not all unhealthy. Likewise surprised by the 2-8 minutes figure.
Really surprised by the 2-8 minute statistic
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This is everything I wanted to say…and now I don’t need to because it’s already here 
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2-8 minutes blew my mind
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Two points I loved:
- the 2/8 minutes … a confidence booster even if I never measured the time so I can even be faster than 2 minutes…
- the fact that I can find a balanced approach to porn
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Didnt know average is 2-8 mins
Had no idea squirting was with turkey basters and never considered stunt doubles.
I like the analogy of watching fast & furious and still being a safe driver. It perfectly represents how porn is not reality
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I come to realisation that i use porn sometimes as procrastination to avoid doing stuff. Or sometimes im just horny. It was eye opening hearing about the Porno facts
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I want to find other ways to unwind and relax without watching porn.
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I think porn isn’t inherently bad but my relationship with it is getting in the way of developing a better sex life. It’s been a crutch to have a quick release, but then in some ways it has helped me understand what turns me on and to feel ok with that. It’s great to see so many honest comments. Thank you
No one talks about it but isn’t it unusual how the desire for wealth money or fame or whatever drives people to do more extreme forms of porn. There is so much taboo porn on the internet like family roleplay and i find it kind of weird
All the stats provided by the previous post was incredibly helpful. I had a lot of misleading conceptions of porn
I wonder if women like porn and would it be appropriate to ask a woman to watch porn with you
I feel like porn may be able to get me hard because it fulfills my fantasies in ways that many women don’t, unfortunately.
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