I’m on a getaway with my girlfriend and we’ve been having incredible sex and I’ve been able to keep my anxiety at bay. This morning, during round 2, I went down and couldn’t finish. We had just had sex 15 or so minutes prior, so I know that’s perfectly natural. Just feeling self conscious and a little inadequate and my anxiety is back up saying “it doesn’t work” again.
Any encouragement would be great.
You gotta change your perspective. Don’t focus on the fact that you couldn’t get hard for round 2, focus on the fact that you were able to get hard for round 1. You’re human, it’s not gonna work every time and you need to understand that and be ok with that. Accept it as is it and shift your mindset to look at it differently in a positive way rather than negative.
Same exact thing happened to me a couple days ago. Round one everything works great. Then switch the focusing on her . About 15 minutes my wife go me hard agian . Stated going for a second time but I knew I wasn’t going to be able to finish so I pulled out and stop and lost my erection . Just like you started to get in my head . Like the gentleman said the fact that we were able to have success is what we have to remind ourselves of . You just proved to yourself that you can do it !! Remind Your inner credit and celebrate the victories. We got this !