My wife and I have always had a vigorous sex life. Was on Viagra for a few years but it stopped working. Switched to Cialis and that worked great for a while but now stopped. About a month or so ago I stopped being able to get hard or maintain an erection even on meds. I can get hard on my own thinking about sex but just canât get it up when the moment comes. It has nothing to do with my wife. Sheâs as hot as ever and I want her just as bad as always but I just cannot get a super hard erection around her anymore and donât know why. Hoping this will help.
Get your testosterone checked and go on TRT
Thanks but my doctor checked my T levels. Theyâre perfectly fine.
Honestly, it might be stress or similar. Had a similar issue myself, was taking pills and previously when they had worked, now they werenât doing anything at all, and I felt really stressed about it. Started the app and focussed more on the mental stuff, like the inner critic., spectating etc as well as the physical exercises, and now can achieve and erection without pills, but do take the pills to help if Iâm wanting it to be a longer session or similar. Those medications help with releasing the blood vessels, so the body actually doesnât âget usedâ to them unlike other medication, so it might be whatever stress is in your life is making it even more difficult. I know this was the case with me