Hi, I was diagnosed with venous leaks a few months ago. Does anyone know if these can be cured by lifestyle changes e.g. a lot of physical exercise & healthy diet or do they really require surgery? I have been taking cialis daily but the past few months but have failed to have sex with my girlfriend since last May. Although I can get my penis to be erect for up to a few minutes as soon as I put on the condom I lose the erection. However when I masturbate I can usually get longer erections. I’m really in a catch-22 situation as I need to practise with my girlfriend more often but each time it fails she gets more & more upset & I’m REALLY REALLY WORRIED that she’ll leave me soon! Would be very grateful on any advice on how I could convince her that there is still hope that we’ll still be able to have successful sex soon. Many thanks!
Try to convince her to have sex without condom, use other types of birth control. I don’t have your type of problem, but I’m losing hardness in condom as well and it always has been like that, so I just tell my GF and now wife that and we never use it. Could you also tell me about your symptoms? Like, only masturbation works for you or sexual thoughts as well?