Unable to get erect and going in a loop

🍆 Erection issues
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I had an intense fight with my partner where there were things said to me that affected me a lot. I could not perform a couple of times after that because those words were stuck in my head.

Even though I got over what was said, I got into a loop where I lost my confidence in being able to get an erection. I’ve gone in a loop and have performance anxiety. Anyone else faced this? How did you get over?

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I’m in a similar boat. I described it as a loop to my sex therapist. Talking about it helps. For me, once I start worrying about my erection, I don’t get one. I k ow it is related to anxiety and negative self-talk. Understanding that is easy, getting passed it has been a challenge that I’m still working on.