alright geezas. im 24, single since just after the new year. the break up hit me harder then ever expected & has me in a constant overthinking process.
im confident, i run, go to the gym 4 days a week, & actively play football. last night i was on a date and it was going well, she moved over next to me and started rubbing my leg towards the end of the evening, in a way where i was aroused.
however, my break up makes me overthinking all the time. the soaking in my pants was something else when this happened and I wasn’t getting hard - we were in a pub full of people.
around 4am this morning i woke up to such a tense orgasm, even though i was sleeping. ive had this before & if anything it’s a positive sign. i think what im trying to say is im just a bit concerned if I should have been hard in the moment, and if things went further, how can i control & maintain my arosual to avoid any sort of PE?
i have however since seen some really good things on here about success stories and it really helps just seeing a bit of a success. i wouldn’t say ive suffered before, once I didn’t get it up with my ex but that was when we first saw each other, bound to be a bit anxious.
i dont even know what im getting at tbh, I just found it strange that this bird is clear into me & my body just wasn’t having it in that circumstance, and I do have a genuine fear of not getting hard, and if so lasting 30 seconds. ive had good sex with my ex but that’s because I was comfortable, never anything more then 10 minutes, maybe more 2nd time round.
idk chaps. any kind of help or guidance would be such a bonus to hear 