PE and ED? Anyone else?

Recently started seeing a girl and we decided after a few visits to seeing one another to have sex. It was this moment that was built up, but then I decided to finish super early. I waited a couple hours for round 2, thinking I’ll be fine this time round, like it normally is, but nope didn’t happen. Then I thought fuck it, let’s try again in the morning as I always manage to last longer then, it was erect the whole time until it was time to go for it, then it just failed on me.

Because of this I decided to use the app, because why not! Has anyone else got the same issues?

That’s how I was. Until recently, I’ve always been able to have sex. Then one time I wasn’t hard enough. Ever since, that has been stuck in my head and I’ll be fine right until we’re about to start. Now mine goes away right at the start of foreplay

What do you think is the best way to resolve that ? - going away right after foreplay when you are about “to do it”

I wish I knew. I just can’t escape the negative thoughts and self critic

I wish I knew. I can’t get out of my head and escape my self critic