Has anyone had a difficult time bottoming. No matter what I do I just can’t open up. I’ve tried breathing pushing and everything else. I’ve become very frustrated and I can’t seem to talk to my partner about it. Bottoming is something I really want to do because I see how others enjoy it so much. I need help.
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So at first I couldn’t do it either, but then I bought an average sized dildo and tried it slowly and in my pace. Try it in different positions and use enough lube. Another factor, that made me always tense up, was the fact that I was afraid of making a mess. I started experimenting in the shower and this took my anxiety away. These tips might help you too
Some things that worked for me as an insanely tight bottom…
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Your partner should not rush you. Climb on top if you need to keep control. And maybe he doesn’t fully penetrate the first handful of times. That’s fine.
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There are dildo trainer sets that come in graduated sizes. Start small and use lots of lube. Take your time and don’t rush.
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Search for how to properly clean. This is a good guide https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com
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Another guide https://www.sfaf.org/collections/beta/anal-douching-safety-tips/