Ive found that the build up is key and not going straight to the clitoris. Its not about making them cum as quick as them giving the guy a handjob or blowjob.
Slow build up. Kissing the body and waiting until you can tell they are super turned on before going in on the clitoris
Foreplay and build up
Vulva but also ears, surprisingly
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Gentle but firm pressure, not too fast
Teasing them by kissing and touching around the clit, brushing past it a little to heighten the anticipation. Even going along the inner thigh and the abdomen a little to create a wider area of sensation. Start slow and delicate, eventually zeroing in on the clit once she is already breathing a little heavier.
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Baby oil and a full body massage! Working my fingers and fists around her body. When I’m finally between her legs, slow fingers, gentle kissing, thigh grabbing, tongue flicking. Her reactions are everything!
Massage her body and then go down on her
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Teasing
There’s not just one recipe from them all, because each and every woman is very different, when it comes to erogenous zones, turns on, favour spots to hit, time taken for a proper arousal or to get wet, preferred ways and techniques to feel the touch of a man, proper timing to try anything with or on her, etc. And it depends also on the very moment you are into and how you two got there. As a general rule of thumb (but it may not be the same for any woman nor for the same woman in different situations or moments) it’s a good idea not to go straight to the point (clitoris or vulva) but indulge in some foreplay wherever else on her whole body, eventually also around and close to the vagina clitoris and labia but not on them at once. This can often help build arousal and the crave for sex and her man.
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Teasing and fingering
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Fingering sucking on neck and boobs
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Foreplay and teasing
Gentle strokes
Foreplay, teasing, slow pace
Oral
Foreplay to get them wet first
Massage
Kissing their body, gently stroking the skin
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Kissing, touching, rubbing clitoris