Building up… make her want you to touch a certain place, like a nipple, by touching around it, slowly, making her wait long enough, and then doing it in different ways and or intensities
Women can have many androgynous zones. Play with their nipples, arms, back, neck. It’s different for each person. Also explore your own body.
Mostly she doesn’t want any sexual pleasure/ contact. But sometimes all the conditions are right. Then initially cuddling and kissing. Once she is warming up, licking or sucking nipples, massaging around the clitoris or vaginal entrance. Then adding g spot and direct clitoral stimulation when she wants it.
Polka dots
Using teasing techniques- touching, kissing, hair grabbing, ass slapping, biting - in between penetrative sex (and ofc after foreplay). Start the penetrations with just a single thrust or a few, and increase each time. The idea is to build anticipation by switching between penetrative and non penetrative sex, at a rate increasing in penetrative intensity. Soon she will reach a point of great hormones, at which time you will stimulate the clitoris in unison with penetration - both done uniformly and rythmicly until orgasm - the penetration as whatever you enjoy most (or, as you get better, the speed at which you will cum at the same time as her, which can be sublime).
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Taking my time, then targeting the G Spot and clit.
Rubbing the clitoris while penetrating. This is easiest when she is on top.
Lying on your side while penetrating with your penis and then reaching around and rubbing the clit.
I like to finger my partner with my finger facing up and lick the clit to the same rhythm when my partner gets close.
Whisper in her ear to get her turned on, slowly move down to the vagina, two fingers in and apply pressure to the ridged wall (g spot)
My wife really likes the “painting” technique, where you rub your penis up and down the vulva like a paint brush.
Polka dot, caressing near the clit and hitting the gspot
None very experienced but stimming the vulva then working towards clit then g spot then penetration if alls well.
As a gay man, give her advice on how to tell if her boyfriend is cheating or not 
Licking and doing sucking kisses of her clitoris while fingering her. Then, her riding on top of me cowgirl style.
Kissing her neck, Nipple play, strong dominant moves and directions spoken and by moving her body for her, gripping the hair at the back of her neck and pulling her head back.
I’ve found out late in life that while most women don’t orgasm from penetrative sex and need their partners to work at improving foreplay, some women who DO orgasm through penetrative sex do not necessarily want much foreplay and appreciate athletic and positive penetration without all the details around it. Some mental rewiring has been needed!
When she is getting close, I write my name in cursive on her clitoris with my tongue. It makes her go wild and I also feel like I’m claiming her or marking my territory. She once asked what my trick was and when I told her she thought it was really sexy!
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Make her feel desired:
- tell her she looks hot/beautiful today (bonus points for being specific - I.e., you look so hot in those jeans/ riding me/“you have the prettiest eyes. I love when you look up at me while you’re on your knees”
- what you want to do to her (e.g., I’d bend you over that table if I could/I’m going to cum so deep inside you later, when I get home I want you on your knees, etc). Could be a whisper in her ear or a cheeky text.
- buy lingerie and tell her you want a photo of her wearing it while you’re out.
- Use deliberate touch throughout the day (grabbing her waist or butt, pulling her in for a hug randomly, etc)
- touch her butt, waist during sex
- guide her body into positions (e.g., pull her ontop of you, turn her over and guide her into doggy, put her on her back and stand over her)
- look at her with desire: move between looking in her eyes and over her body
Use variety:
- make sure you’re not following the same sequence in sex all the time. There are so many positions to try!! Blow jobs and cowgirl are just the beginning.
- be spontaneous sometimes. Initiate on the couch or in the laundry, not always once you’re tucked into bed.
- mix up the time of day (morning sex is fun too!)
- bring toys into the bedroom (have her stimulate her clit, while you stroke yourself or while you are thrusting, as a newer and better 69; watch her squirm and beg for you as you penetrate her with a dildo, etc).
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Sucking nipples and rubbing penis on clit, polka dots
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