So previously I wrote here about playing with myself and cumming flaccid after like 20-30seconds. The other week I went on a date and got semi’s every so often but I came in my boxers.
Never in my life has this happened before and at my adult age it was highly embarrassing, i don’t think she saw or caught on but my anxiety around it is much bigger.
Was this a result of not doing the tasks daily? Or my increased anxiety around my erections? Or a combination of both?
Hi bro, it sounds like you’re really in your head, which is understandable. I get a lot of benefit out of box breathing to control anxiety. Try that and keep doing the tasks. You got this!
Often erections issues and climaxing early can go had in hand. Sometimes as you have described when you manage to get semi’s at the beginning you can suddenly find yourself cumming too quickly. If you can just go back to some of the mindful masturbating, taking things slowly, noticing thoughts, doing some waxing and waning, practicing the point of inevitability - whilst trying to enjoy it - you will soon build up your confidence. You’re getting there - even though it might not feel like it. : )