Came while flaccid. AGAIN

Some pre-context, I was doing the programme for a couple months and then I got busy and skipped several days and I didn’t get back into the swing of it and I stopped, especially since the app signed me out. I just didn’t log back in. Haven’t touched or played with myself in about 6-8 weeks. However in a piece of good news, I am getting regular morning woods now.

Just played with myself, if you can call it that, and INSTANTLY came.

I was flaccid and I stroked myself several times and was going slow (I was looking at some porn but it was an image and not video, but I seriously doubt this is the problem) less than 30 seconds and I pre-came and I didn’t think much of it and continued to play. Almost instantly from then on I came. (Strangely I was able to get somewhat hard AFTER cumming, weird, barely lasted any time though, it went straight back down) This has seriously damaged my self confidence, I feel as though I will never be able to have sex again. I was making good progress before and now it’s all come shattering down. I didn’t even get hard!

I went on a date a few weeks back and got a semi while kissing, so I think I’ll be fine with a woman, but I haven’t actually moved on to actual sex, so who knows, maybe in that scenario I’ll cum fast again. Has anyone else experienced this? My confidence is at rock bottom at the moment. This problem has been going on for years now. (Gradually got worse to the point where I cum flaccid) I feel as though I’m making progress and then BOOM right back where I started. I don’t want the rest of my life to be constantly doing these exercises.

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I had some thing happened to me. My wife was gone over the weekend we she got home I came semi hard before we had sex . Yes I believe it is all psychological. But here’s some encouragement
I did the breathing techniques and focused on enjoying her touch and got full erect and had normal sex!! This was a huge win for me because it’s been about a month since I’ve been having issues. You got this !

You didn’t play or touch yourself for 6-8 WEEKS?! I don’t think I could ever make it that long but if I did I’d probably blast across the room just thinking of touching it!

I wouldn’t stress too much, it had been awhile and you stopped doing the exercises. Be nice to yourself and don’t give up hope. Good luck!