So I’ve been on a relationship for 6 months, and while we’ve technically had sex, it hasn’t lasted longer than a minute or two before ive lost the erection. She’s generally been pretty patient about it and has given a lot of oral sex and I’ve reciprocated but she’s put it to me today that she doesn’t know if she can be in a sexless relationship.
I’ve tried to explain all the help I am getting and plan to get. I am going to a sex therapist, I am on this app, and I’ve started taking cialis but as yet sex hasn’t worked out.
A month or so ago she said she wanted to take time off attempting sex because me losing my erection is always so deflating for her. I explained today that part of the process will be that I am going to lose it sometimes and she has to be supportive of it for us to get through it but she didn’t seem to grasp that. I asked if she expects a guarantee before sex rhat I won’t lose it and she said no but I can’t help but think in reality that’s precisely what she wants
Not sure what to do here.