That I immediately have to be a demon in bed
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That I must last as long as porn actors, that that is the best way women have orgasms
And that I should be ready with an erection immediately!
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Using porn has a mean to cope with an unhappiness. I’m in the wake of a breakup and I find myself scrolling just for that quick fix of physical pleasure/dopamine
It’s the unrealistic vision of sex having to be this masculine rough dominant over submissive exchange that flows perfectly through stages of foreplay to penetration, is clean and everyone cums and Iives happily ever after.
The reality is that it’s far more impulsive, chaotic and messy. The struggle is remembering that this is real and this is ok, enjoy the chaos.
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I need to be hard and have penetrative sex with my partner in order to maintain a healthy relationship. My inability to do this is why I’ve always only had relationships that last 3 months. I feel guilty even trying to date because I don’t want them to waste their time getting to know me only to find out they’d be committing to bad sex.
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That porn addiction may be why it is hard for me to keep and maintain an erection. And why I have never came with my partner during sex before.
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Porn has ruined my ability to enjoy sex with a partner.
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That I’ve spent so long watching porn that I won’t be able to be intimate with someone. Or that I’ll never be satisfied with someone because they aren’t as good as the people I see in porn.
Man, I feel you.
My dick should be at least 6 inches to pleasure. And she should moan like the actors do in the porn.
That I need to be at least 8 inches and that every session needs to have penetrative orgasms to be considered a good session
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That I must only get hard off the woman I am with and I am cheating on them if I don’t fully have all my attention on them when I am with them
At 57 and growing older and a few failed attempts in bed over the past 12 months, that age is against me, and therefore, I’ve only got more failures to endure moving forward.
My age and previous experiences are against me.
That any man under 40 shouldn’t have any sexual problems (Performance anxiety, ED, etc)
Interesting there is no genuine link between watching porn and making me get new kinks. Or that and erection issues. Thinking about it my erection issues come from having jerked off to porn 1 or more times earlier that day. And then not having good intimacy with my wife that I can’t keep an erection
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Find it weird that porn doesn’t have a direct link and not being able to get hard or it developing harder kinks.
I’ve struggled with staying or getting hard with a partner for years, but I think most of it is anxiety and stress
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Having had a porn addiction and felt how it changed my body and my mind, I’m unconvinced that it’s harmless. For people like me, it’s incredibly addictive and destructive.
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I cant find my partner attractive anymore because of porn