That sex should be faultless and perfect the way it’s depicted within Porn. And even though I know the reality of life isn’t this it’s still in my head a lot!
Porn isn’t real life interactions between two people who love eachother
The discussion about using porn to escape stress was key for me. Silva’s description of what happens when this is your only strategy to manage stress was bang on.
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That I should be immediately aroused at the start of a sexual encounter. I want to accept that it takes some time to get aroused.
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That i should should be hard immediately and stay hard
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Porn isn’t real life
That porn has desensitized my arousal in real life sex with my partner
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That porn trains me to cum faster with a partner. And I don’t know if it’s because of porn, or is it because I don’t have any sports activities so I’m out of shape, or is it my constant nervousness that I’ve been living with for a while now.
The interview with Cam was the first thing that has really spoke to me. Very useful.
That a bigger/ different shaped dick would make her enjoy sex more
That I should be immediately hard and ready 24/7
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I guess it is a myth I realized at least to me but not to others that an erection changes during sex, it can go up and down and is not constant, which is what I learned here
That i should should be hard immediately and stay hard
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Im actually in the same situation as Cam
That I should get hard instantly and maintain it for long periods
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Hard instantly and maintain it until she and I cum
I agree with the comments below. Getting hard very quickly. Unfortunately, my partner thinks that I should get hard more quickly as well
That I should be immediately hard and keep it that way.
That I should be able to both get and maintain a rock hard erection on impulse with my partner
To quickly get hard and maintain it
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