That anxiety will never allow me to enjoy sex with my partner
That length and longevity are smaller details. Intimacy, warming your partner up/foreplay, and good communication is all that’s need to get the juices flowing.
Understanding and communication and empathy are the driving forces for sexual compatibility.
Yes, the claim that porn negatively affects both your ability to get hard and the quality of erections still rings true for me. This is mainly because when I was younger and was watching porn all the time, I couldn’t get hard during real life sex, and over time my erections got softer even when watching porn. Then I decided to quit porn, and went on a masturbation detox for 3 months. After this I was able to get hard naturally during real life sex, my erections were much harder, and I was having the best sex of my life.
I get so in my head during sex and spectate myself so much that I find it almost impossible to focus on pleasurable physical sensations or even perceive my partner as being a full 3D person in the room with me
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Sometimes I think porn is the reason I am unable to stay focused. So it’s best for me to leave it out. Try my best to allow real encounters to take me away.
Sometimes I compare to other men in porn videos. Especially the size of their penis. Can make me question and doubt myself
that I should have an erection right away, and that if I don’t I’m a useless human being
The “instant hardon”, that as soon as arousal hits, I should be ready to go
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That I am out of control for using porn.
I need to reassure myself that I will not get hard immediately with a partner. It’s okay to need “warming up” before sex. When. Using porn I get hard quickly and it’s created an artificial pressure that I put upon myself
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I need to be aroused immediately
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I don’t believe the idea of Porn not doing any type of damage to my brain in some way shape or form that has negatively impacted my sex life.
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The claim that the issues with porn are all in your head is really interesting. I need to let go of the myth that porn is my problem
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That it makes you not feel inclined to have quality sex
did that help or did you get ED again after some time?
Sex is just not penetration
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There’s so much more to sex than penetration
That porn causes erection issues while having sex with someone
I like watching amateur hot wife milf videos usually with black guys /cuckold.
I think it’s because I have a very dark skinned cock and the taboo of a older woman slagging it up for real is such a turn on.
Porn decreases your action towards getting sex