So, what sex myth do you struggle to let go of?

[unnecessary-white-wildfowl]

That it’s the standard to cum during penetration

[permanent-gold-snail]

That my penis has to be a certain size or it constantly has to be rock hard

[pretty-lavender-takin]

That once I finish, that’s the end of the sexual intimacy

[suspicious-fuchsia-reindeer]

Penis size and body image.

[competent-aqua-cougar]

Penis size and how long I last

[concerned-gold-constrictor]

That I need to finish in order to enjoy sex

[rare-gray-mandrill]

That me and my partner must finish for it to be enjoyable

[occasional-apricot-iguana]

The risk , I did the same when I was younger watching porn when I shouldn’t be , so actually connects dots to wanting to replicate that risk in other ways now that I’m okder

[new-magenta-mule]

That sex has to last for a long time

[subsequent-chocolate-ptarmigan]

That sex needs to involve penetration and ejaculation

[selective-olive-fly]

I feel like I can’t get an erection now unless I watch a very specific type of porn

[scary-bronze-tahr]

Bro said he used porn as a coping mechanism, and I think I did the same thing, I’d have runs of going w/o it, but it’s been on/off cycles for sure.

[serious-sapphire-felidae]

Tying porn to a nostalgic experience—evoked for me that, most often, when I’m enjoying myself alone, I’m reimagining experiences with my ex (even if I’m watching porn)

[common-azure-egret]

The main myth for me that I think still applies is porn delaying ejaculation when with a partner. I am trying to use erotica or audio instead of visual porn to help with this.

[integrated-turquoise-slug]

That watching porn causes erection issues, its easier for me to get erect when im watching some kind of porn than I am with someone else by a mile and I always felt porn itself had smth to do with it

[beneficial-bronze-starfish]

I hadn’t considered all the types of things that could be going through my mind with a partner. Not always aware of how anxious I am and how worrying about getting hard is counter productive.

[commercial-azure-roundworm]

I watch porn and masterbate when im bored and need a quick dopamine hit. But I’ve been single and used porn for so long that I worry I need that visual in order to get hard.

[troubled-apricot-ant]

What I need to do better is be present during sex.

[national-beige-chicken]

I feel guilty about the porn I’m drawn too, but it’s good to know that the guilt is the biggest problem. I either need to go to different porn or quit altogether

[amazing-olive-gull]

I found it relatable they way he discussed it as an easy way to stop feeling uncomfortable