I just had sex for the first time in 18 months, although I didn’t orgasm through sex, I was able to maintain an erection for over an hour. I also used a condom for this which I generally hate but managed to work just fine! Super happy right now, this programme clearly helps if you stick to it.
My only issue was obviously the fact that I lasted so long, many might not see that as an issue but for me I still wasn’t able to get fully turned on, anyone got any tips for this?
The last time I had sex and felt that I wouldn’t cum, I just said to myself that I didn’t have to cum to have a good experience. It’s obviously awesome to climax, but I’m just going to enjoy my partner’s touch instead of trying to finish. I even told her that I don’t necessarily want to cum so that she wouldn’t feel pressure to “make it happen”. She thought it was strange but when I said I just wanted to enjoy being touched by her she relaxed and seemed to like the idea. We had sex for a long while and I was very aware of the pleasant physical sensations. It was great despite not having an orgasm.
That’s kinda how I viewed it, although I did eventually climax through head, I knew I wouldn’t cum this time through sex, maybe I should communicated that clearer to my SO like you did
Aye!
Wow!!
Congratulations!!!
That’s very encouraging!!
Congratulations!! Can I ask how long you’ve been using the app for?
Next time, use positive imagination a little bit. When you start to enjoy the lighter sensations think of her doing something much dirtier or think of her moan with your big load on her face saying your name. This could give you the chance to push you over the edge on command and have more control of your ejaculation.