Been with my wife almost 20 years. Had an affair. She found out 9 months ago. We are working through things.
At first I didn’t have much trouble being intimate with her. The last few months I have had very low sex drive. Don’t really feel horny. My plumbing works (night errctions), I know it has to be psychological.
Recently lost erection a couple times during sex. That didn’t help things.
I am attracted to her.
How/when do I get over this low libido?