Same old problem

I’ve always had PE issues, 2-3 mins and I’m exploding. If I speed up and/or thrust hard, which is what my partner loves the most….well 30s at best. I hate it, but there it is. I’ve had times where I could last ten mins going steady and maybe 30-45s hard thrusting, but she likes it hard for a few mins and then a slow down. I just want to give her that….its frustrating as crap! I know she has had that from past partners.


I know that it’s frustrating, but just remember it’s something you can change if you work on it – just give yourself some time and maybe a little bit of compassion!


I always found edging, breathing and penis muscle flexing helped me control how long I could have sex for, hope this helps :+1: