I’m 18 years old with a new girlfriend. I have never been a nervous person when it came to sex matter of fact this is the first instance of ED. Me and her will makeout and pleasure eachother with oral sex before hand. But it seems i’m hard the whole time until right before i put it in. It goes limp and it’s been very embarrassing. Can somebody help me understand what i’m facing? i don’t know if it’s a mental block and i haven’t been waking up with morning wood as much.
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You’re just nervous. It’s normal and you’ll overcome it
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New girlfriend, you wanna impress. Just focus on her for longer and maybe avoid the oral on you. Also delay penetration and just try rubbing on the outside for a bit to build pleasure for both of you. But most importantly - talk to her openly about it, being transparent about desire, what works & doesn’t work for you both is a great way to reduce anxiety all round. Take it from a dude in a 7yr relationship, since we’ve been more open about issues like this, our sex life has only improved. She is there for me and I am there for her. Sex should be a safe space.
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