Just recently got a new girlfriend and we’ve been seeing each other for just over two months, sex is REALLY important to the both of us and suddenly I’m struggling to either get it up or keep it up
Just there today it took me jerking off for 10 minutes just to get an erection and last 5 pumps
Then we were just kidding around and we had our clothes on in missionary and she was holding my dick through my pyjama pants, I got a raging hard on and we decided to try for a quickie…got like 5 strokes in and lost it
please please please help me
I’m physically fit, I stopped vaping, I don’t drink, I’m 24 years old and like 85kg
im literally in the same situation, just a little younger than you. I m also looking for solutions to this problem and dont know what to do. I know i cannot help with anything, but im writing this just so that you know that youre not alone in this. We will figure it out eventually brother✌️
If you’re like me you probably hear a little voice just before sex “ don’t lose it” or “ you’re going to lose it”. If that’s the case for you I’ll be honest the voice is a tough bastard to beat but just keep telling yourself it’s not a rational thought and try to calm your brain and slow your heart rate.
Very common.
It’s in your head! Theres no magic formula. Viagra and Cialis won’t even overcome the schitt going on in my head. I can be hard enough to cut glass, then in 2 seconds- poof- gone.
I’m 53 and have a handful of other issues Togo along with that but I just wish I could keep it up for 10 minutes once a week….
Going through the same thing fellas, got hard enough to have sex till completion tonight. At the start though it was rough for me to get hard, as it has been the last few sessions. Tonight I toughed it out and finished. Progress is there! What helped me is fantasizing our great sex we have had in the past. Keep fighting!
I posted earlier, A Tale of 2 Tales.
Recently, I had great sex 3-5x a day. Sessions over 30+ minutes with my ex girlfriend.
Currently, with my new gf; sex is hard. She is as beautiful as my previous one but more type A. There are times that I lose my erection inside of her.
I never took pills with ex. But i started with the new gf. And believe me , the pills dont work either.
The inner critic is ON and is cockblocking - I know this.
Same age.
My recent ex and i had amazing sex without pills for 3 years.
This new hot babe Im with; its a chore. Pills dont even work.
Im thinking because she is type A as compared to my last gf that was submissive.
Its frustrating