Hi, just joined this community and it feels somewhat of a relief already reading a few posts and relating to a number of them. Suffering in silent shame no more!
I’m 39 and have never had any control over climax. Possibly never lasted beyond a minute. For years I’ve hoped that things would naturally improve with age but that’s not been the case. Frustration and shame has built to the point where I can’t always keep a firm one and when it does come back I’ve started blowing when penetrating. I really want to be able to give my incredible lady what she more than likely wants. She says she’s okay, but I suspect there’s underlying disappointment.
Anyway, I guess the silver lining is getting to a point where I’m really driven to do something about this.
Any thoughts, wisdom are appreciated.