So, I had a girlfriend for about 13 years and I almost never had any problem of erection with her. She was my first sex partner.
Now that we broke up and I starter dating new girls, I seem to have a big problem when itâs time for penetrative sex. I became soft the moment its time to remove my clothes.
It happened to me 2 times with 2 differents girls.
The second one was somebody that I was seing for like a month and the day after, she stopped our relation. So this begin to be difficult for me.
Do you have any tips for me that could help me?
This problem seem to happen only the first time I make love with someone new.
Itâs because youâre nervous about making a good first impression with someone new, thatâs why it didnât happen with the person you were with for a long time, because they already knew you and youâd made that impression on them already so you had no nerves about it.
Do the exercises on Mojo. The main thing is to distract your mind from thinking âOh no, how will this go? What will she think?â in the moment. Try hard to concentrate on the nice things you can see, hear and feel as you start to have sex. If you practice mindfulness, youâll get used to ânoticingâ thoughts and letting them pass, rather than engaging with them and concentrating on whatâs in your head. You need to be paying more attention to whatâs outside you. Itâs easier said than done but thatâs what the app is here to help with.
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You are 100% correct.
Thank you for the reply!
I will try this
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