Just joined today, trying to turn my sex life around with my partner. She has been feeling like I am not sexually attracted to her because I do not initiate sex. I am very attracted to her but I feel that part of this is due to the fact that I don’t want to disappoint her or myself in my performance or I don’t feel that my inner critic will come out and I don’t feel like dealing with the negativity. It isn’t about not wanting her but it has been bothering her and I feel that it now adds some pressure to our situation. I am hoping mojo can help out and allow me to relax and allow myself to go after her without constraints.
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You literally ripped the words out of my mouth and couldn’t have explained my situation to a Tee any better
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It’s the same with me. I am too aware that I won’t be able to perform satisfactorily. I can’t remember the last time I was intimate with my spouse.
Great you have found Mojo! it is so easy for ED problems to seep into relationship problems. it can be confusing and distressing for you both. Hopefully you have managed to share that you are using Mojo - that can be a huge relief for partners. Hopefully it will open up more communication which will be key. You can slow things down, get back into your body and take the pressure of yourself. Go through the exercises and your confidence will begin to come back. You will understand what is going on and get better at noticing your inner critic and when you are in your head and out of your body. Couples sensate can be wonderful and connecting you both and providing a secure place to work on things. Good luck : )