Potentially going to have sex tonight

🍆 Erection issues
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It’s been almost bit over a year since I’ve had sex (making out and a handjob here and there since then) and I’m meeting with someone later.

It’s most likely going to happen and I couldn’t be more excited. But I’m a bit nervous. Feels like I’m gonna do it for the first time again, it’s crazy.

Any advice or words of encouragement to stay in the moment and maintain the erection? I may take a cialis just in case. I hear box breathing is a good method. Any others?

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  1. Worry: dont. Everything will be fine. Even if it didnt work, your erection depends on lots of factors, give it time until you are horny. And if it doesnt happen, if she is a fit, she will try again a few days/hours later.
  2. Box breaths: whenever you get into fight and flight mode and can’t control the rush of stress hitting you, go down on her while doing box breaths, even if she perceives your weird breathing it will seem like part of giving head and she cant see your belly so you can utilize correctly for exhaling. At the same time it gives you as long as you want to to jerk yourself hard again. Its as if you give yourself a break from trying to be erect, the time to get your stress down again and then work on the erection without being/feeling observed.
    The most important thing for me was always mindset. Tell yourself it will work stop thinking about it you know your dick works fine so it will work. And even if it didnt, as long as you can tell yourself that after some time of destressing yourself during head you will get hard for sure. Once that is done just focus on the sensation and something that gets you off. It can be something as simple as “this girl just opened her legs for me” or a sensation like how a clit feels or how pussy feels on your fingers from the inside. Just focus on small things like that. Good luck bro!
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Great advice!!!
I’ll add that I use what I see as stimulus. Her beautiful legs and feet in my face looking for some loving! There’s a beautiful woman sucking on me, I need to enjoy this! If I go soft, I’ll pull out and rub it on her clit and up and down. She loves it! She’s gotten off several times from this alone… which gets me fired up again.
Good luck fellas! :four_leaf_clover:

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