Performance anxiety gone!

hello, just wanted to share how I overcame my issues.
understanding how it was being triggered through this app was helpful + the exercises.

the main thing was talking openly to my girlfriend about it and explaining it to her, and having no stress on myself to perform. i was happy to pleasure her orally or with fingers in the mean time and only when and if my penis cooperates we can try that.

having the pressure relieved of trying to live up to her expectations really helped, and once i was able to finally get a hard one a while later and get it in it was uphill from there.

had sex 13 times over the remainder of the week with absolutely no performance issues, and solid erections the entire time because of the confidence I had built from the previous time(s).

highly recommend talking openly to your partner if you haven’t already. i also quit porn for a month or two prior.

time to delete this app. all the best.

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That’s great news, a real confidence booster for me!

I’m in the same situation, but I’ve come out of a 23 year relationship 3 years ago and have had PA ever since. I’ve met a beautiful woman (both in our 50’s) and she’s made me feel confident enough to talk about it. She says she’s more than happy with non-penetrative sex, but the erections are steadily coming back and lasting longer - Oh yes!

For me, it has definitely been a mental problem. After being painfully rejected after a 23 year relationship, losing my home and now barely seeing my kids it has been very hard mentally, which has transferred to the bedroom aswell.

Mojo has definitely given me the knowledge to work at overcoing my issue and it is slowly paying off. My new GF is smiling all of the time!

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Congrats brother!
Same exact situation. Wife of 23 yrs split in Feb. in June I met a wonderful woman!! We are open, communicate often and she’s so loving and caring. Super supportive. I gave up 90% porn and solo. Wiring the app for 2 months and seeing modest results. We’re now having pretty good sex along with oral and handies…

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Reduced blue: :100: agree!!!
Very similar situation. She’s sooo caring and understanding. Having a partner you can confide in and who’s your cheerleader is a game changer…
Congrats man!!! :facepunch: