I’m very much a perfectionist at heart. Whether it be school, work, sports, and even sex. I’ve been extremely bad at viewing sex as a performance. That I need to be the best of the best and truly wow whatever girl in sleeping with. However, that’s been my downfall. I get into my head thinking “what if I don’t make her finish? What if I’m not big enough for what she likes? What if she’s getting bored?” And before I know it, I can’t even have sex to begin with because my penis isn’t wanting to do the job. It’s extremely embarrassing for me. Recently it happened with a new girl I’m seeing. We had been talking for a while and had gotten to the point where we were getting it on one night and… nothing. I was so frustrated with myself and I felt bad that she thought it was her that caused it. I downloaded this app the day after. So far, I’m already experiencing better sexual confidence. I’m seeing the girl again tomorrow and even though I’m still a little nervous about not being able to get it up, I definitely feel better.
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Be confident in your skills.
If you get her off a few times with your tongue and fingers before you even get out of your boxers……
that’ll take some pressure off of you!
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I’m 100% there dude. My 4 year relationship with the girl of my dreams is a few fights away from falling apart… I have to stop being so critical and viewing sex as a binary outcome… it’s quite challenging.