Ive been using this app for less than a week, my free trial hasnt even ended yet. Im only 20 and ive been struggling with performance anxiety for the past year. I recently got into a relationship and she was in a period of celibacy when we met. It just ended a couple weeks ago, and i knew shed want to have sex. I genuinely kind of freaked out because i knew about my anxiety but havent told her. Eventually, the time came, and i could not get hard. She did what she could to help, and literally 5 seconds after i finally got hard from her head, i came, and i was very embarrassed. After that i decided to open up to her about the anxiety, and at the same time i downloaded this app. I knew i finally had to face it with no bluechew. We tried again maybe once or twice within that time, but today it was perfect, i went soft at one point because she was hurting and needed a quick break, and during that time i lost my erection, panicked, and knew i wouldnt get it back up. She reassured me, made me comfortable, kept touching me, and was patient. I told her about my favorite lesson (self critic) and that i talk to it in a third person, when she was trying to get me erect again, she whispered “tell the person in your head its okay, its just me, he can relax” and i did that and got it right back up
Wow. Man she sounds like a keeper!!! Wonderful story. Can’t wait to hear more!!!
Gf and I had a great pillow talk discussion this morning about my issues. She’s super supportive and we’ve had great success helping me with my ped, deathgrip and inner critic. I still need to finish myself, and I’m not hard like I could be- but hell-I’m working with 53Yo equipment…… 
Good stuff
This actually helped me feel better about my issues man, I just recently got a girlfriend and she is great and I feel like she would be understanding if I talked to her about it but I’m so ashamed of it. But your story gave me hope and even if Im not ready to talk to her about it maybe some day I will
I did open up to a new gf very early on. It has been a game changer. She is super understanding and supportive. During my conversations with her, I expressed that this is my issue alone. It’s in my head and partially physical. But- There are a couple things that you/we could try to maybe help the situation.
-Talk naughty to me. Be explicit. Last weekend she asked me to finger her while she played with her toy. Totally out of character for her!!! The ask was hot but the act was super hot!!! She got off multiple times and it got me going!! The other morning she went down on me. She has arthritis in her neck - after a while she grabbed the lube and went at it with her hand but said she want to watch me cum then taste it! This was super hot and got me hard almost instantly.
My point is- if you have an honest, thoughtful and delicate conversation- good things can come out of it……
This was in response to Endless Blue Armadillo.
You got you a keeper
Very encouraging. I opened up with my partner. She said as ling as I feel good nothing else matters so there is no need to over-think things.