I have been trying the wax and wane exercise to help me gain more skill and confidence in getting an erection and regaining it when I lose it. I have noticed that I am able to get a semi-erection which is still a little on the flaccid and I can cum in that status. However, it is still not hard enough to have traditional penile-vaginal sex with my girlfriend. Furthermore, it is difficult to try to get to a more fully erect penis while masturbating without cumming. We have other ways of being intimate and achieving orgasm together, but I am still working toward this sex goal, if you will. And I know I am capable of a fully erect penis capable of sex because I wake up with morning wood. How do I get to the point of a fully erect penis so that I can have traditional sex with my girlfriend and move past other sexual activity?
Great question. I have been wondering the same thing. I wish I had an answer for you — but ultimately that’s why I’m on this app too.
I do feel like there’s been a bit of progress this week, it’s just slower than I want.
I also use the morning wood to my advantage when I can.
I had that issue as well. Sticking with the activities after 100 days and I’m night day better with the cumming with a semi issue. I’m not an expert, but I think it comes from that body/mind/arousal disconnect many of us suffer with from compulsive porn and masturbation habits. Anxiety is also a beast with this. No matter what, I can tell you that it does get better. For me, kegel and reverse kegels have helped and simply doing the activities on here and getting more in tune with my body over time. No quick fixes, but I’ve noticed a huge difference with it!
Like @entitled-chocolate-bass I too am doing wax and wane and only getting semi erect. Along with the Kegel exercises it’s something that I’m working on.
My anxiety issues aren’t helping me get out of my head while doing the exercises.
I struggle with this, too. Can almost never have penetrative sex with my wife. I wake up with morning wood but we can’t have sex because we sleep with one of our kids. And if we do, I also suffer from premature ejaculation. It’s tough man. I feel like my marriage is suffering and I’ve had to allow her to bring other men into the bedroom to let her have pleasure. I still don’t know how I even feel about that.
Hi all. Yes. I’m very similar but I climax when still soft. Wife understands but really she isn’t anywhere near satisfied with non penetrative sex