It’s been so long since I had a chance for sex. I’ve been doing the exercises and I’ve been having more morning wood, stronger erections, just better in general
Then actual sex presents itself and I get absolutely nothing. Not even half way.
So disappointing.
Yeah you’re not alone, it’s frustrating isn’t it? Supposedly the easiest most primal thing in the world - get an erection and stick it in! Easy right?!
At least we’re all here trying to work this out together - we’ll get there.
I’m sorry to hear that brother. Do you remember what your thought process was just prior? Were you unconsciously thinking the worst?
My thought prices was “fuck yes.”
It was with my wife and we’ve been having issues so there was something subconscious. I think I was pinning to much on is having sex again like that would solve everything, and now that I couldn’t make it happen I am catastrophizing.
Hello men, I’m sorry to hear this, from my experience with relationship issues our best laid plans (to have sex etc ) may not play out as we expect. I have learned to have patience as has my wife and for us to pin all value and meaning on cock in pussy. We have gradually rebuilt our sensual lives and had great experiences (oral, touch, massage, vibrators) . I had penetrative sex last weekend and it was great but don’t over value it would be my humble advice