Not letting it get me down

🍆 Erection issues
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Last night my girlfriend and I went two rounds with no issues. It’s been that way for a while.
This morning I was hard and ready to go, but as soon as I was in her my anxiety kicked in and I went down. But I just stayed inside her while I was soft and played with her clit until she climaxed.

I told her I was a little in my head, but didn’t apologize or let on that I was super bothered. I’d be lying if I said I don’t feel an insecure right now, but I’m trying to remind myself how far I’ve come and that this is becoming less and less common. (Really only Wednesday mornings for some reason :roll_eyes:)

I’m holding my head up high and trying to remember that my worth comes from more than just my performance. We got this boys.

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Remember men do need a ‘refractory’ period to recover after sex. If you are stressed or tiered it may be longer. Depending on you age it can take 24 hours. : )

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Keep at it!!

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Also worth noting, for me anyway. There’s often no reason but refractory period could be anything between 2 minutes and 24 hours. Trick is to chill out about it, understand when it’s just to soon and take the opportunity to pleasure your partner selflessly instead :blush:

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