Not letting it get me down

šŸ† Erection issues
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Last night my girlfriend and I went two rounds with no issues. Itā€™s been that way for a while.
This morning I was hard and ready to go, but as soon as I was in her my anxiety kicked in and I went down. But I just stayed inside her while I was soft and played with her clit until she climaxed.

I told her I was a little in my head, but didnā€™t apologize or let on that I was super bothered. Iā€™d be lying if I said I donā€™t feel an insecure right now, but Iā€™m trying to remind myself how far Iā€™ve come and that this is becoming less and less common. (Really only Wednesday mornings for some reason :roll_eyes:)

Iā€™m holding my head up high and trying to remember that my worth comes from more than just my performance. We got this boys.

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Remember men do need a ā€˜refractoryā€™ period to recover after sex. If you are stressed or tiered it may be longer. Depending on you age it can take 24 hours. : )

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Keep at it!!

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Also worth noting, for me anyway. Thereā€™s often no reason but refractory period could be anything between 2 minutes and 24 hours. Trick is to chill out about it, understand when itā€™s just to soon and take the opportunity to pleasure your partner selflessly instead :blush:

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