I am not sure if this is porn related but I find that whenever I have sex or meet someone for sex or a hookup or whatever, I am never really IN to it. I’ve never been SUPER attracted to anyone I’ve been with… idk if this is bc of porn or if this is just performance anxiety or something else. But it feels like nobody is attractive to me who I sleep with. Anybody else feel this or have this issue ?
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Performance anxiety can Forsure make me feel asexual. However, this is quickly changes after a couple wins for me.
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Hello, I struggle with this as well, how often do you watch porn? And how long you have been for?.
It’s very important. That you’re attracted to the person, porn destroyed my life. I’m only rebuilding now am 27.
I watch porn/jerk off maybe like 3 times per week. It used to be more but I am in my early 30s now and my libido is a bit lower. I’ve been watching porn for probably 15 years.
Have you seen progress or found a solution? I suppose the answer is to cute porn entirely ?
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I never thought porn was the problem until I did research, I’ve only just started my journey I just need to try and complete 90 days. And then see how I feel. It’s so hard. I’ve been addicted since I was 13. I never stopped. I can’t get into relationships. Because when I get to that stage my body feels nothing and it’s so heartbreaking, I need to do it it’s only for my own good, I would suggest completely cut out with the porn I need to get my sexual feeling back but I’m hoping it’s not too late. To be honest, I don’t really know what to do. But this app helps me. Because I’m reading other people stories. It’s something that I’ve kept so private. I can’t tell family or friends. Because it’s embarrassing. Sorry for the long message.!
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What research have you found. You said 90 days so I am guessing you’re doing the NoFap thing?
So basically I didn’t know that porn and wanking together was so bad, been going it for a long time so since I know now it’s bad , but I know it’s going to take a long process, I don’t even feel arousal if am about to have sex, I trued to tell a girl I was with about a year ago and she left straight away so that broke me, then I just stuck with porn, so this time I had enough, try 90 days then see how my body feels , so no porn , or wanking, nothing at all thats have to be the only way,
I am also in the same situation