I don’t seem to have a problem sustaining an erection while receiving a blowjob I do not know why that is the case but it’s always that way but I do have a problem sustaining an erection during intercourse I have no problem getting the erection to begin with whether we have physical foreplay or not just a thought of being with my significant other is enough to arouse me just to to obtain my initial erection but after a few minutes to 3 minutes of and of course I lose my erection and I can lay down and receive oral and become a wreck and stay right through the entire time but not during intercourse even after receiving oil and producing an erection again we may go back into intercourse and again two or three minutes later I will lose the erection it happens all the time why is this happening during intercourse but not during oral sex
Hi man, I am no expert clearly, but it may be that you are treating intercourse as a performance but a BJ not.
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Just curious, are you on your back when receiving oral, and upright/on top when having intercourse? I have a similar issue, although it’s been getting better with kegels.