No sex- quality poor

Wife hardly wants sex, if I don’t ask we could go months without it. If I raise the subject we end up arguing and it always ends up being my fault. When we do have sex, it’s one position and no oral. Again if I ask, I get told I am always asking for oral. If I raise this on a different day, wife listens but that’s it. No reply and no change. Otherwise married life is great. Any advise please?

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The only thing that will help this is communication. If he two of you are unable to communicate and get on the same wave length with your current communication skills. Might be a good idea to see a couples therapist. When sex slows down that much it’s usually a sign of bigger problems at large.