I was 15 when i had my first instance of ED, it was 4:40 in the morning and I hadn’t sleep so I objectively understand my body just wasn’t function properly. But this I belive has sent me down a spiral and made it worse. I tried to use pills but I got prescribed by a doctor a high dosage viagra that omly work 2 hrs at a time, and needed to be taken right before sex. That really fucked me becauze that created such a bad relationship with my dick and created a heightened sense of alertness and stress around initiating sex. Idk why I wrote this and I don’t even have a question, just expressing my frustration
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It’s good that you express your feeling and get it out because it’s hard to talk to family and friends about my situation is a bit different I struggle with porn and have been since I was 14 am 27 now, it’s destroyed my life I’m only starting to get off it now better days are coming never give up
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I feel ya.
If you think you need pills, try Rugiet. It’s a blend of Viagra, Cialis and a couple mgs of (it helps with arousal… I forget the name..)
Viagra is in/out of you in a few hours. Cialis lasts 24-36 hrs…
The Rugiet melts under your tongue and works in 15-20 min because it doesn’t need to be digested…. Also it’s not dependent on what’s in your stomach.
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I just wanted to say you’re not alone, and you’re not broken. You’re young and have several years ahead of you.
Sex is a very important part of our adult lives, but it’s not the most important thing that defines your masculinity, your character and how you hold your integrity when no one is watching does. There are so many men your age that feel compelled to turn to pills (and I’m not at all judging that) that end up with heart problems, and that’s an EXTREMELY scary thing dude.
As someone who has wasted so many years beating myself up for past failures, I can first hand tell you that a negative mindset will always kill your wins. As men we’re generally expected to not have issues with self image, but I would argue that it’s harder for us because we wear a mask over how we actually feel most of the time. It’s cool to feel, and more importantly, you MUST honor yourself and your journey by practicing gratitude. Even if you are making progress in every area of life, if you aren’t allowing your mind to receive it, it turns into physical baggage that carries into everything else, including sex (speaking for myself, this was definitely me). We have to work extra hard to find the positivity in everything. Gratitude journaling has helped me a long way.
Also, practice anything geared towards mindfulness. Meditation is great, yoga is greater, and learn how to tune into your breath. Do anything that forces you to focus on releasing the tension, even if it’s only 10 mins a day, it can cause a monumental shift in your life.
Keep fighting man.
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so well written man, really appreciate the response
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