She started a romantic relationship prior to leaving me in the middle of our family vacation in Florida. Once she left she filed a PPO and started having sex with this ugly fat red haired guy who she said has a thicker dick. Now I had sex with multiple women during that time as well. But I hate her for it and I’m obsessed with finding out exactly how much bigger it was. What do I do. so far the only way I have gotten over things she did is be getting exact details but with this one she does not want to talk about. Why??
Is this a troll? You’re still in contact with your ex, and you’re bothering her to know details of the measurements of her new boyfriend?
I’d say move on. If you are seeing other women now, what do you need to fixate on your ex or her boyfriend’s dick for?
If it’s insecurity about her leaving you, you’ve got some inner work to do. I say all this with love, brother. Because what you write seems like dysfunctional patterning.
Your better off. She is his problem know. Believe me when I say you dodged a bullet
Forget about her. Get out there and smash!
The best revenge is a well lived life. Sounds like she’s intentionally trying to hurt you by feeding you this info about her new bf. Don’t allow her this petty victory. Focus on yourself, and soon than later you’ll forget about her and someone else’s dick.