I don’t know why but I think it really gets to me that she dosent orgasm unless we use toys, is this normal that somtimes women might not orgasm from sex or do I just have bad techniques
A lot of women need a clitoral stimulus to finish. That’s a fact.
You could try longer, more intense foreplay. Spend a bunch of time kissing all over, teasing, get close to her clit but just tease it with tongue and fingers. The clit actually runs behind the outer lips as well. So a full hand or just fingers on either side is stimulating part of the clit.
I’m saying get her more turned on before intercourse could help.
Do not feel bad because she doesn’t finish solely from your dick. Compromise and adapt.
Good luck man!!
It is normal. Read “she comes first” and don’t let the toys deter you. Join in. I learned too late to put my ego aside and it cost me years of great sex and my marriage. Have FUN in bed.
I had a partner that was like that. It didn’t make me feel bad, I think it’s just how some women are.